Mother healing doesn’t happen in one conversation or one hug. It’s a slow reweaving of trust and tenderness. It’s a choice... to honour what we got, to honour what was missing and to keep choosing love anyway. Now, as a mother myself, I know that the most powerful healing doesn’t come from being perfect, how boring. It comes from showing up, loving hard and learning to forgive ourselves along the way.
To those who are leading businesses or organisations in a way that’s soul led and empowering, not soul destroying and fear-based, hats off to you! Thank you for reminding us what’s possible when people come first, not profit. May we all keep building spaces like that, where truth, growth and gentle power can thrive for the highest good of humanity.
Choosing presence means I’m there for the small moments, the hard questions, the emotional weather patterns that pass through little bodies trying to make sense of a big world with all it's expectations and that doesn’t always pay in cash but it pays in closeness. Closeness, I said. A currency I refuse to devalue.
In closing, I feel it relevant to mention that forgiveness is more than just making peace with an event, a person, a group of people and so on. True, deep and meaningful forgiveness means that you make peace with yourself for the discontent that could cost you your sanity in each moment of your precious, human life.
So, just rehearting you that their behaviour is not who they are, you are not delusional, you most likely have fallen in love with who they are at the core. After all, we see in others a reflection of ourselves. You would not support a friend in losing themselves as a result of behaviour that is not in alignment with their highest, love yourself the same way.